How strict are your parents?
08.06.2025 23:59
I asked them to go outside like picnic or something they said we don't have money ! Just earn by urself nd go wherever u want ! But how will I earn they never allow me to do work !.
Whenever I cry infront of them my dad always use vulgar words after drinking alcohol like ( tum log kuch nhi kr skte , chuttiya aulad ho tum meri , ise acha mar jate , logo ke bche kya kuch kre hai or tum log mere paise pr aish kr rhe ho bs , maine to ghr bna v dia tum log to ek eet ( brick) tk nhi kharid paoge ) you are useless! I'm ashamed of you !.
They were really good to me but later, my dad after drinking alcohol while eating dinner ( actually we all eat dinner together kinda habit ) so he used to say what will you do in your future do u have any idea ? Go for CA prepare for it after your 12th he don't even know the meaning of this his frends son was doing it so he said this to me. Later one day someone called my father I was in 12 th standard tht time was waiting for my result ofcourse! That person asked my father ( is your daughter interested to go abroad) i was like no I'll never leave you dad i started crying i was kinda close to them . That uncle was dealing with us that my son can't clear IELTS nd all tht shit so let us marry our kid nd we will give u money she can go abroad nd after few mnths she can call her husband there !.
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Now I'm preparing for afcat . My cabincrew dream became ( just my dream) .. whenever I try to do studies they always start comparing me with those girls who just wanna marry in future after their 12th .. they do house chores nd after tht whole day they gossips abt eachother .. my mom owns a shop they those girls come nd do gossiping!.
I dreamt of becoming army officer but when I shared about this with my family they were laughing on me nd said u can never become one ! U don't have tht qualities I said I'll develop !. Let me join some coaching and all but they said we don't have money !. Nd dad said army is not for girls !. Kitchen is the only place you can serve!.
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I don't know if they r toxic or they r protecting me .. but I feel depressed , i feel I'm a burden on them .they always talk abt my marriage … I didn't lived my life properly like other girls r living. . just for once I wanna do what I really want in my life !..
Later i got admitted in hospital cuz of heavy bleeding ( heavy flow ) nd nurse asked me do u have any boyfriend nd when she asked me this my both parents were infront me nd I said no I don't .. the minute she went away from me my mom grabbed my neck nd asked me again nd again .. i was crying nd begging that no I didn't do anything wrong !.
Sometimes I feel depressed!.
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After that we shifted in civil area , ofcourse rent house and all !.
My mother never trusted me !.
I completed my bachelor's from open university so ofcourse I was staying at home no friends ntg .. I wasn't in touch with my 12 th class friends my dad changed my number nd my mom she used to check my phone when I was in 12th she used to read my text what I'm talking with my friends with whom I'm talking ! Nd later she used to punish me , ie. Not giving my phone for next 1 week , she slapped me thousands of the time infront of my dad and he never said a single word to her !.
We came back to our hometown after completing my studies! Here I didn't know anyone ofcourse we staying with him in quarters for 20years! So it was tough to go out nd make friends !. But guess what ?
My mother said go nd die thousands of the time !.
After completing my bachelor's i did fight with them nd said i wanna become a cabincrew they were against it but when I showed them the luxurious life of a cabincrew they agreed ! Nd allowed me to join the academy for training !.
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Whenever I go for an interview after doing a fight with them they just give me 1000 or 2000 rupees nd it's tough to survive for 4 days properly !..
My dad was doing govt job . he got retired 6 years before!…. At that time I was in 10th maybe !.
My father scolded me a lot as i refused that offer ! He said you can't do anything properly you are useless !.
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After 4 failures I got selected for indigo airline but for PHT training ( they were asking 20,000 per month ) it was already tough for me to arrange the money to attend the interviews.
After few months I wasn't feeling well i was staying in pg for ofcourse food poisoning of something like that happened nd at the same time my periods started!.
I joined one school to teach students ! But I didn't liked the environment there ! So i left the job after 8 months they paid me 10,000 per month but my dad said it's not enough .. nd we aren't surviving on your money just leave the job nd do house work !
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Sometimes I hate my parents but still I can't live without them I cry whenever I hurt them .. whenever I do fight i regret tht later !..
I'm waking up early so that I can complete my syllabus on time nd can give my govt exams so I can clear any of it nd can go far from my parents !…
They allow me to go outside with them on festivals like diwali or new year . Whenever I say i wanna go outside i wanna make friends how will I know the world if I won't face it !.
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My mother always taunt me learn something from them , they do whole house chores nd u can't even cook properly!. To be honest now I can cook properly I can do house work in just 2 hours .they always find mistakes in my work nd make me do it again !.
I usually skipped the meals to reach the destination .
My dad told me to stay at home , you will be safe here don't go outside nowadays people's intentions aren't good , you will suffer i know what kind of people live here just stay inside.. never go outside and make friends ! Now it's been 4 years I'm staying at my home no friends nd all mu routine sucks !
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I'm giving interviews , I'm doing fight with them everyday crying begging infront of them so I won't end up like my mom !.
My father said i should do house work . U won't be serving your husband money he won't eat money he will eat food go nd learn how to cook !.. since past 4 years I'm the one who is cooking the food daily !.
From Punjab to Delhi from Delhi to UP nd so on ..
My dad said if u want to do work than who will clean the house , who will make food ? Ur husband??
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I cried I came back home . Nd they r taunting me again nd again .. krli apni mrji ? Hogya selection? Maa baap se ldkr jaoge to jhi hoga !!. Kisi kaam ke nhi ho bhgwan v tumhara sth nhi dega tum maa baap ko dukhi krte ho !..
Sometimes I feel I'm in prison let me tell you how !..
Later doctor said it's PCOD just take some treatment nd maintain your daily routine properly .. my mother literally asked her ( the doctor) that is she pregnant ? This heavy flow is bcuz of miscarriage? Even doctor was shocked after listening this !.
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Wanna go outside on bike rides with friends , eating with them , enjoying with them , clicking pictures with them .
Nd now again I'm just doing house work which I'll be doing in future too after marrying someone . I'm struggling enough but i know I'll be successful one day !..